SEX & THE CITY

Porn Myths

MYTH A: WHEN WOMEN SAY “NO”, THEY MEAN “YES”

In real life, no means no and yes means yes. Didn’t get a no? That doesn’t mean it’s a yes! Respect your partner and don’t do anything they aren’t comfortable with.

They may be your partner and you may have been together for many years but if they don’t feel comfortable doing something, STOP! Sex is meant to be enjoyable for BOTH parties involved. Under the law, non-consensual sex = RAPE!

MYTH B: MY DICK ISN’T BIG ENOUGH

There aren’t many qualifications to becoming a male porn star but one of the requirements is having a massive cock. Not all men are porn stars, and not all women are supermodels. Bodies come in a variety of shapes and sizes. Some people prefer small cocks to large cocks and some people prefer big boobs to small boobs.

Most guys fall between 12.9-15 centimetres when erect. So don’t sweat it if you are just…well…normal. FYI, most women can’t orgasm just from penetration! Clitoral stimulation leads to more orgasms than penetration. It’s not the size of the wand, it’s the way you use it. Learn what turns your partner on and you will become an irresistible lover irrespective of your penis size.

MYTH C: THEY LOVE TO GIVE HEAD

Some people are big fans of giving fellatio while others just find it gross. If your partner doesn’t want to give you head, it’s not because they don’t love you, but that they may not be comfortable with it. Respect your partner’s decision.

MYTH D: THEY WANT YOUR LOAD ALL OVER THEIR FACE.

Again, some people may love cum in the face while others may not. If this is your fantasy, you’d better ask first. Communication is key!

MYTH E: IF THEY AIN’T IN THE MOOD, THEY DON’T LIKE ME

Stress or tiredness can inhibit people’s desire to have sex. So the next time your partner says no, don’t push it. Find out whether there is anything troubling them. Instead of pursuing sex, maybe give them a massage to help them unwind.

MYTH F: PORN ONLY DISTORTS THE IDEA OF NORMAL MALE GENITALS

Porn also gives the wrong impression of what female genitals look like. Female porn stars often have surgery or are edited to hide any protruding inner lips. The resulting look is more like that of a prepubescent girl than an adult woman, especially with the trend of shaved nether regions in porn.